The goal, as I understand it—and some of this comes from flashes I have had from time to time—is to feel more like yourself. It is to feel larger, more connected, more natural, more calm and ready.
I think this notion is often confused with emotional dissociation and obsessions of all sorts, such as those with goodness, with compassion, with “empathy” (a badly abused word at present in my estimation), with “justice”, however you may define it.
Much of my own work has been to create a conceptual world for ME to occupy, and much of that has been to make hard things soft to the point of being dissolvable, even vaporous. We all know what s cloud is, even if the lines don’t exist.
There is much confusion in this world. Sometimes, though, confusion is a good thing, perhaps even wisdom.