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The next day

Paradoxically, I will be a success when I stop calling myself a failure.  Rather, when I stop FEELING like a failure, which is to say when I down regulate my hyperactive amygdala.

So much of our society is driven by shame, which is to say the fear of failure.  Mistakes have to be possible.  I am sure of that.  Growth is not possible any other way.  But none of us should have to be elite to feel like we have a place.  Some of us will always be more talented than others, and that is good.  Such people should be rewarded.  But all of us should have a place, and right now far too man of us don’t.  Just look at the “deaths from despair” numbers on suicide, and deaths from alcoholism and drug abuse.

As I posted on Facebook last week, Roger Waters calls it right when he says “any fool knows a dog needs a home, as shelter from pigs on the wing.”

My work continues.  I actually feel good.  I am sleeping through the night without booze or interruptions other than getting up to pee.