I read Christopher Lasch’s book several decades ago, but was thinking of it yesterday. The narcissists he described in the 1970’s parented the children of today. And this is significant when we see statistics like what I posted a week or two ago that the levels of empathy among young adults have dropped 40% in the last 30 years. I will
quote more extensively this time:
. . .in a survey that has so far tested 14,000 volunteers, Sara Konrath
and her team at the University of Michigan’s Institute for Social
Research has found that college students’ self-reported empathy levels
(as measured by the Interpersonal Reactivity Index, a standardized
questionnaire containing such items as “I often have tender, concerned
feelings for people less fortunate than me” and “I try to look at
everybody’s side of a disagreement before I make a decision”) have been
in steady decline over the past three decades—since the inauguration of
the scale, in fact, back in 1979. A particularly pronounced slump has
been observed over the past 10 years. “College kids today are about 40
percent lower in empathy than their counterparts of 20 or 30 years ago,”
Konrath reports.
More worrisome still, according to Jean Twenge, a professor of
psychology at San Diego State University, is that, during this same
period, students’ self-reported narcissism levels have shot through the
roof. “Many people see the current group of college students, sometimes
called ‘Generation Me,’ ” Konrath continues, “as one of the most
self-centered, narcissistic, competitive, confident, and individualistic
in recent history.
Now read this review.
What I will submit is that the essence of what we call Individualism is the capacity for individuals to make moral progress, to become, on the inside, better human beings. This stipulation is essential for the concept of personal responsibility to make any sense; it is essential for individuals to feel a sense of SELF that endures when they are alone.
Narcissism, paradoxically, is a fixation with self that arises from NOT feeling a sense of self. You seek what you don’t have. You think about yourself constantly because you have to reassure yourself that you have not in fact vanished. You seek the admiration of others, but when they offer it there is no you to return it. There is never a connection that is stable. The world is always in flux.
I look at things like Twitter, and I see vanity. What can you say worth saying in 100 characters, or whatever it is? When it first came out, I was told by a younger friend that I couldn’t use it, since I would run out of characters before I got to my second comma, which no doubt was and is true.
But I have commented before on this obsessive need for today’s young people to be in CONSTANT contact with their friends, as if they would disappear if they had to go twenty minutes without a text or Facebook post.
I remember listening to a series of lectures on Existentialism, and when he got to Dostoevsky, a point he made about “Notes from an Underground Man” is that Dostoevsky, in that piece, was rejecting the notion of moral progress. This was, to me, a profound notion: what happens when you no longer believe that personal growth is possible? What is the meaning of life for such a person? What CAN be the meaning of life?
I want to be clear: if there is no up or down, there is no way of labeling even sensations. You cannot say pain is worse than pleasure, and if memory serves the narrator of that piece was in many respects a masochist.
A culture of narcissism is the inevitable product of moral pessimism, which itself is the result of both scientism–the curse of our age–and incompetent philosophizing. In turn, as I posted a couple posts ago, radical politics can play the role of ersatz conscience for those otherwise lacking a coherent moral identity.
We are animals, in many respects. This is indisputable. But we are also spiritual beings, which is something that can be SCIENTIFICALLY investigated. It simply hasn’t been by the mainstream. What they do is spend enormous amounts of time criticizing the experiments of others, but ZERO in serious, sincere efforts at duplication.
In an actually scientific world, in an actually rational society, LARGE amounts of money would be spent on projects like that of Gary Schwarz and the Windbridge Institute (among many others). We don’t live in a scientific, rational society. We know this because our thought leaders relentlessly proclaim their rationality and dedication to science. No one is fully rational. Only rational people realize this, though, by adding their emotions to the mix consciously.
In a world characterized by competent philosophy, we would reject any and all need for a SINGLE answer, and accept that many correct answers are both possible and DESIRABLE. That is what I intended with my own essay on Goodness. I have absolute principles, but accept countless iterations of them, countless deployments, countless individual answers, all of which can be discussed and negotiated.
But we have little of this. We have people who cling to traditions like Christianity that really cannot survive in this critical age; and we have people who reject the very notion of individual moral improvement and who, in so doing, condemn us to the pervasive mediocrity on display in front of us, a nation of selfish fools.
think you demonstrate well here that there are many ways to be insane.
Really, all you need do is EITHER say things that are plainly not true,
or ignore things that plainly ARE true.
It is an inescapable fact that our nation is increasing its debt at a
pace of roughly $5 trillion a YEAR, once we factor in Social Security
and Medicare money that should be getting set aside, but isn’t. http://usatoday30.usatoday.com…
It is an inescapable fact that many environmentalists have spoken
openly and often about desires to curtail and even eliminate democracy,
and about the need for a global government. If you doubt this, read
this piece: http://www.claremont.org/publi…
It is an inescapable fact that Barack Obama has not provided a birth
certificate that would be accepted in any court in the land. He
provided an on-line copy of a plainly redacted PDF file. Anyone with
intact reality testing would recognize INSTANTLY that that is not
compatible with having nothing to hide. My best guess is that the
certificate lists Frank Marshall Davis as the father. None of you
likely know this, but it appears a virtual certainty that Obama’s mother
allowed Davis to take and PUBLISH naked pictures of her. I know you
don’t want to know this, but even Snopes has given up efforts to pretend
otherwise: http://www.obamasrealfather.co…
It is an inescapable fact that 47 story skyscrapers do not just
collapse at random, do not burn for 8 hours with no fuel sources other
than office furnishings, and that the official explanation for the
collapse of Tower 7 is simply untenable. I deal with this here: http://moderatesunited.blogspo…
It is my considered view that United 93 was supposed to hit Tower 7.
The timeline works. It took off from Newark, just across the river.
As far as brainwashing, here, what is being discussed is not
different than “politics”. All politicians, as required by the nature
of their profession, try to pick words carefully. Clearly, Obama is no
Mao or Lenin. This does not mean that the elimination of political
opposition–of democracy and the rule of law–is not his long term aim.
Why wouldn’t it be? What doubt does he harbor about the depth of his
wisdom and altruistic humanitarianism? What doubt does he harbor that
anyone who disagrees with him can only do so as a result of vile bigotry
and ignorance?
What comfort should conservatives–true Liberals–feel when we see
the hatred spewed at us daily by the duly and dully appointed keepers of
the leftist flame? I post on websites across the spectrum, and while
true Liberals get angry, they never reach the levels of sheer venom that
I have had directed at me daily over the last decade.