Multiple Orgasms

Here is what I would argue is a useful oversimplification (a term I just invented and like): the talent of men is suppressing experience, and that of women processing it.  Men are physically hard wired to more easily sequester experience, to lock it away.  This is helpful, as one example, in war, where the experiences are completely overwhelming.  I asked a Ranger acquaintance once how he dealt with the death of a man we both knew in an IED explosion, and he said: “I lock it away in a drawer and don’t open it very often.”

Women have vastly more connections between their hemispheres than men do.  This means their experience of life is more unified; they have a harder time not feeling things, not reacting to things.  This is a general statement, but my own observations bear this out.

But I would stipulate that because they are wired this way, women’s potential richness of experience of life is vastly larger than that of most men who do not teach themselves to be integrated.  It is not enough to be fearless: one must feel fear and process it and transcend it into acceptance.

I recently became aware that women can have four kinds of orgasms.  Did you know this?  I have reached middle age and not known this.  They can have clitoral, G-Spot, anal, and squirting orgasms.  They can also have many of them.  One girl on a CD I watched claimed to have had 18 in one session.

I say this not because I am obsessed with these things, but because this is actually very interesting.  The potential richness of a woman’s sexual experience is vastly greater than that of a man, who can have one (and if he is gay, or willing to allow anal sex, two) type, and typically is doing well if he can have two in one session, and great if he can do three.

This got me to wondering if in some ways God gave women more ways to process experience precisely because they have no choice.  My whole inner work right now is learning to open up internal energy flow, and I am wondering if women can get everything I am doing done simply through good sex.

I had more to say, but need to run.