A similar dynamic was perhaps in play in Russia and China, with the difference was that the rulers emerged AFTER the Party was victorious, and an effort was made to create popular support. That is likely an over-simplification, but the point as concerns current Communists remains.
They simply know they want to be ruled. They simply know they want their Party in charge. Psychologically, I cannot see any meaningful way in which they do not want to be subordinated, in effect, to a machine, to an apparatus of control, to nameless faces, far away.
Ponder that.
And rhetorically, it occurs to me that Communists win many debates because they simply trot out the atrocities of America, and American backed rulers, and the idiots they are speaking to have no ability to frame these actions in a historical context. They simply know that “we” committed crimes, and the people doing the talking have no desire or intent of doing an actual moral comparison with the actions of Communists, even though they are essential to forming anything approximating a balanced picture.
I look at these peoples, and picture them in boats. They throw reason–which is the balanced consideration of all factors, which are then integrated into a framework of principle–overboard. They throw compassion–which is the ability to empathize with ALL human suffering–overboard. The first is the rudder, the second is the oars or sails. What is left is adrift. Such people have no history, they have no people, they have no law. They have only what they are told, and what they do. It is very hard building bridges to people lost at sea.