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Society: a useful clarification

When anyone says that “society” has failed an individual or group of individuals, what we almost invariably mean is that their FAMILIES have failed them.  The people our culture depends upon as the first and primary source of adaptive acculturation have failed to do their job.

This has been made unclear since at least the time of Rousseau since he himself sired a number of children  he flipped off to orphanages since he didn’t want to take care of them, since he was either a narcissist or a sociopath.  Thus, “society” is what you lean on when you are irresponsible, and which in practice means depending on the tender mercies of a power elite who use taxpayer money to buy votes, and thus to get the power they need to take de facto kickbacks and bribes.

Compassion is a necessary virtue in others for the irresponsible.

His family failed Trayvon Martin.  That is precisely why they are so mad at everyone else.  The mirror can be a painful place to look, and God knows they have plenty of help shifting the blame everywhere but where it belongs.  I don’t blame Martin for reacting in predictable ways to what was no doubt a very unpleasant environment.  I would say until about age 25, in our culture, kids are direct reflections of the work the parent(s) did or (in all too many cases) did not do.